Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Addicted to Cell Phones?
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Addicted to Food?
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Addicted to Pregancy?
http://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/pregnancy-perks?page=1
Is it possible to be addicted to pregnancy? In 2007 alone more than 43 million babies were born, with more than ¼ of them being the mothers 3rd or 4th child. Could this number be so high because of the increased rates of infertility and in vitro fertilization increases the mother’s chances of having multiples?
Do women have children to fulfill their need for attention? Does it calm their feelings of insecurity or feeling s of abandonment? What kind of social, physical, and psychological rewards does having a baby give to the mother? Is it possible for men to addicted to pregnacy? While they cannot bear children, could then be addicted to the need for attention also that children give?
Should this be called an addiction or should it be categorized as a mental disorder? Why is it that some women can stop at one or two children with the reasoning that kids cost money, but others cannot?
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Addicted to Porn?
Can one be addicted to something that does not have a chemical component? While many people undoubtedly develop unhealthy ideas about sex and sexuality from pornography, is addiction really the best way to think about this?
Does the fact that this is an addiction that seems to affect men far more often than women suggest that there are social and cultural factors at play that make the issue far more complicated than merely being about addiction? Are men addicted to pornography or the idea of limitless sexual conquests with no consequences (note the lack of STDs or unwanted pregnancies in mainstream pornography)?
Also, what is the function of the appeal to a higher power? On the one hand, it seems to suggest that this a problem that could face anyone and with the grace of God any sinner can be saved. However at the same time it suggests that people are powerless to make responsible or ethical choices once sexuality gets involved. Still, considering the sky-high rates of sexual violence against women in our contemporary society, perhaps we should be rewarding anyone who is making an effort to think about women as something other than constantly sexually available to any man who so chooses.